I really like him, and I think we fit together well with personality, values, and life goals. Its been over a year and I don't know what to do. And by joining I mean become just as fanatic in it as she is All her life she's been taught that she needs to be married in a Mormon temple Wife left when I came out If her family are all Traditional Believing Mormons, they will try to convert you. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. An important is doing this together. Wife finds out, affair continues, but now he is the perfect husband, and she is the perfect wife.
It's also possible that deep down she's like many of us here, and her shelf will break and she'll want out. However, you might be lucky to not have the experience I did. It also means that you have to give her something particular to do. Their values and the values of popular western culture are wildly disparate, which can be tough for them to navigate early in life. MinsPackage speaks the truth. What upsets me most is that he didn't realize it was my birthday, or a big one and then that his reaction was to get defensive about his plans rather than offer an alternative for celebrating with me. And he is reading one of my favorite Buddhist-based books, in an effort to understand my beliefs. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly.