Not to mention, he became angry and hostile towards me during the break up. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling. You will get to mingle with a lot of new people, and who knows, maybe you will also find the guy or girl of your dreams there. And sometimes I think we equate easiness with happiness. I tiptoed into my current relationship with a medical student dating two years, med school is almost overand one of the first things I brought up when he was pursuing me and he pursued me HARD was that I would not be the kind of person that would date a doctor. We try to make this place a little better than we found it. In the endвthe very endвGod loves my husband even more than I love him. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. It is a tradeoff at best. Juggle them with a working wife, a housewife with children and things become difficult.
And I resent being viewed as just the wife of a doctor rather than my own person with her own accomplishments and aspirations. Some great ideas include going on a hike or a walk, having a picnic outside or going to museum. He's currently doing emergency medicine and about to start residency. However, for me, there have been some perks too. I'm not going to live my life in regret I know it sounds terrible but you gotta do what you gotta do. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert.
Love the way you normalize the challenges of being married. A shitty sex life, potentially. I'm really glad I found this post today. Patriarchal leadership is something that most women in the world valued until recently, but it is still a chief value with Mormons. It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. If you are only after non-serious dates and spend a great time, you should be fine with this set up. She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage. But I love him. Should one belief system or lack of one take priority and why. You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know.
There's a reason so many Utahns are on anti depressants and anti anxiety meds. I have no support system; you are so fortunate to have weekly dates with your DH. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him. I don't think I can do it again. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. She needs to be, and maybe she will get there. Why would you behave any different now.