I don't think people really understand how lonely it can get, unless you are married to one. I understand the sacrifice that it takes to become a doctor, but I am not sure if he does. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. He has spent years building his practice and is a busy, highly successful pediatric surgeon who is compassionate and respected by everybody, but I think by nature, it is hard for him to be empathetic or to relate to more personal issues. If you are both in high school, she may refuse altogether.
She will insist on raising her children in the Mormon church. As Joanna said, marriage takes some work no matter what, but being married to your best friend, and listening to the spirit brings great blessings. If yes, do you promise to not proselytize to me and let me drink a simple cup of coffee in my own home. That contributes to status in her culture. This is a very delicate territory, so tread carefully. He says he hasn't loved me for the last 2 years and was only staying for the sake of the kids. Apps At Your Fingertips. She doesn't want to marry you.
I would like to compliment the brave ladies for being the strong spouse and keeping the marriage moving forward. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. Random Questions to Ask a Guy. To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice. My Buddhist husband likes Mormons and even going to church. Wow, every word resonates. Notify me of new comments via email. We strive to improve each other.
Basically nothing like reality. Love the way you normalize the challenges of being married. Don't put them through that either.