If you stay together l, you are going to have to remind her of that commitment. If you can, do it now. No hard feelings, is not his fault, I said yes when he proposed based on the life wee had at that time, my fault for not doing some re search and find out how is really when you are a register or in the training programme.
That was literally over years ago. See where it goes. He sees all families being able to stay together. That sentence strikes me as rather bizarre--it seems to be alluding to a causal link between academics and being "emotionally immature," as you put it. It CAN work, to be frank. I have read some of the comment here and would like to share my experience. But it is luck of the draw. We are indeed in two different places. Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else.
Then I discovered that Mormons were a welcome exception to the degeneracy that pervades American women. I am so glad to have found this blog too. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. Thanks for springing that one on me OB. I'm not afraid of long distance, nor am I afraid of moving to follow him for med school, residency, fellowship etc. I look forward to reading more. You know what the official line of the church is, and what bishops and stake presidents are likely to say. If he's in year 1 of the residency, he's got probably years left finishing residency then fellowship.
Am constantly trying to be the understanding girlfriend and try to remain humble towards him at all times but It hurts a lot. He wants me to sit around while he does his stuff. Tears in my eyes after reading this. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. I was skeptical whether this would work with Mormon girlsв sheltered girls who would never step inside a dance club or be wooed by pickup artists.